I’m Catching Hell, Part II
… enter Kraft mayonnaise on the scene. I worked a small amount through my hair without washing it first. I then sprayed it with water and put on a conditioning cap.
You know that mayonnaise contains a lot of fat when talking about your health, but you may not realize that it is actually very oily to the touch.
Just a dab will you ya.
It made my hair feel so soft and I’m loving the experience. I can touch it with less guilt now.
If you apply it in ‘quarter size‘ increments, there will be less of a chance for you to overdo it. Yes, I know the quarter size recommendation is usually useless for most hair conditioners.
Especially for us Nappies.
The cool thing about mayo is that even after you rinse it out, some will stay on your hair for days. Just do not use too much or you will be accused of dripping Jheri Curl juice all over Aunt Frieda’s plastic-covered couch.
I let it sit at least 30 minutes, then rinsed it out with warm water. I used a wide tooth comb to detangle it and then put it in simple two strand twists and finally went to bed.
When I got up it was mostly dry. I untwisted it and put it into one cool afro puff on the top of my head.
So what have I learned? And no, this is not the first time I’ve done unwise things to my hair.
I am reminded that my hair is not tough, it is delicate. It is not designed to shun moisture, it is designed to lap it up! One thing you MUST realize about your daughter’s nappy hair, whether Black or Biracial, is that it loves water.
Yes, w-a-t-e-r.
For so long we have kept our little girls out of the rain and only washed their hair maybe once every two weeks. That is only 2 times a month!
Just so you know, one of the keys to growing your child’s hair is to keep it clean.
Can nappy hair be WASHED every day? Yes.
Should it be SHAMPOOED every day? It depends.
Like with Caucasian hair, it simply depends on whether her hair falls in the oily range or dry range.
You have to simply LISTEN to her hair. I can not stress that enough.
– Nappy Kitchen

I'm a happily nappy African American mom of two biracial children. Glad to see you here. Come on in, have a seat, and I’ll fix you a tall glass of iced tea. Let’s talk about this thing called a nappy kitchen.
October 31st, 2008 at 4:14 pm
I am a White Mommy of a beautiful bi-racial daughter. I have to say that I’m truly at a loss when it comes to her hair. I’ve spent money at salons, tried expensive shampoos, etc. I feel like I’ve done it all. But for some reason, I can seem to make her hair look healthy. She recently decided to cut it off so now she has a short-medium length fro. She wants to grow it out again but I want to make sure I’m doing right by her hair. When her hair is natural it’s nappy and hard to get a come through it. But when it’s permed, it can be brital and break easy. YIKES!!! What do I do? I feel like I’m dammed if I do and dammed if I don’t. Please help! And I want to be able to teach her how to do her own hair but take care of it the right way.
November 1st, 2008 at 10:55 am
@Bonnie: I’m so happy that you stopped by. Thank you so much for telling me about your little cutie pie.
Have you read these posts on this blog?
White Mommys Welcome, Too!
http://www.nappykitchen.com/blog/2008/08/white-mommys-welcome-too/
The Secret to Nappy Hair
http://www.nappykitchen.com/blog/2008/09/the-secret-to-nappy-hair/
The Case Against Hair Grease
http://www.nappykitchen.com/blog/2008/10/the-case-against-hair-grease/
Have you read these articles on the main part of this site?
Nappy Hair Care
http://www.nappykitchen.com/modules/smartsection/category.php?categoryid=1
Nappy Hair FAQs
http://www.nappykitchen.com/modules/smartfaq/category.php?categoryid=1
Hairstyle How To’s
http://www.nappykitchen.com/modules/smartsection/category.php?categoryid=2
Homemade Hair Recipes
http://www.nappykitchen.com/modules/smartsection/category.php?categoryid=3
Nappy Hair Quiz
http://www.nappykitchen.com/modules/myquiz/index.php?qid=1
Product Reviews
http://www.nappykitchen.com/modules/myReviews/
Read these and if you have any more questions let me know.